Are You A Bad Date Magnet? Start Attracting Soulmates, And Avoid Bad Dates

Let's face it: you want to fall in love with someone who will love you back. You're tired of being alone every night – especially every weekend. You're sick and tired of magnetically attracting bad dates that seem to go on forever. You're ready to meet a soulmate for a long-term relationship, but instead you believe you can't attract the partner you deserve.

You keep meeting people who are all wrong for you, or you get dumped and dumped again. Feel like you're stuck in a rut, dating the same type of person over and over? Find yourself alone all the time? Feel scared and nervous before every date? The good news is, you don't have to spend any more time alone. And you can put an end to those miserable dates that lead nowhere. You'll begin enjoying fun dates with terrific people who have the potential to become your soulmate.

Here is a simple tip that will assist you before you get stuck for an easy way out. A first date should always be set up with an easy exit built in, and don't go out to dinner on a first date. Being trapped over a few courses can be painful. Just agree on a lunchtime date or after work coffee, or a drink. Just 1 drink is best. VERY IMPORTANT.

Let them know ahead of time that this date will have to be quick because you have to be somewhere else afterward, maybe someone's going away party, birthday, etc. You get the idea. If things go VERY well- you can extend the lunch or arrange an evening to dinner. And don't forget to cancel on your fake going away party or commitment with a discrete phone call! If the date is a downer- you look at your watch and simply say "Hey, it was nice to meet you! I have to go NOW” No buts or drawn out explanations, it's imperative you leave.

You have already set up your quick exit as part of the coffee/drinks/whatever deal you made. Didn't you? Lunchtime meetings make it extra easy to leave, simply because you HAVE to get back to work! Bottom line, first dates should always be as short as you can make them, you don't want to generate interest that you can't or won't reciprocate. However, if that person is worth more time investment, that can be date two! • Dorothy Parker: Love is like quicksilver in the hand. Leave the fingers open and it stays. Clutch it, and it darts away.